In a society that has become increasingly more materialistic in nature, many of us have learned to associate with the objects we acquire. Many people have learned to hide behind the objects they buy and have those objects do the talking. We started to use products as means to define our identity.it’s easy to compliment others on the objects they buy, use, and wear. But what if we were all stripped away and all that stuff was taken from us? Stuff we own is like an armor. It prevents others from seeing into who we truly are. The stuff is a distraction.

Many of us are self-conscious deep down and we hurt. We don’t want to show who we truly are to the world because what if we are perceived as “different”? What if we aren’t liked? What if our personality traits are unfavorable to the other person? Then we face rejection. And we will do anything to avoid that terrible feeling… Such as buying an armor full of stuff to distract others from seeing into who we truly are.I think another reason why genuine compliments are so tough to give for some people because they require additional effort in getting to see someone beyond that “armor”.In our busy/crazy/hectic/nonstop lives we’re selective on where our efforts go, and sadly many are unwilling to dedicate some of it towards others.

A person’s traits, behaviors, and actions is what makes a person and those are the things that are truly worthy of praise. This is the praise we crave as human beings and this is what affects us and impacts us on a deeper level.....and yes....the one whos reading this....u are truly amazing...i appreciate your time for reading this.

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