If you are looking for a lasting happiness, and something that changes your life,don't look for someone else to make you happy. It doesn't work like that.Others can enhance love toward you, but you will still need to be totally ok with who you are and where you have come from. You need to be totally capable of handling any situation,because you know what has worked for you. Do not think, that you will be happy when you get this or that!! , or whatever it is you think will do it. Even some of the richest people in the world are miserable ..money can't buy love. Even some of the most wonderful couples that you may know,still suffer terrible depression and anxiety...You need to be secure in yourself,and know your worth, and have your own way of rising above the challenges of life.